(Stupid livejournal cut off the rest of my comment.)

And the whole thing with fanclubs (not just Hottests) and companies not allowing their idols to date or spend time with the opposite gender is bullshit.

As far as I'm concerned, the majority of male/female idols are normal people too, despite the hype they're given. They love, they get angry, they date, they hate, etc.

Neither fans nor a company has the right to restrict that.